Hi all. i'm new to this group and i'm not sure how to start. i feel like the things that i do regularly will not count. i often give away food, clothes, smiles & compliments so i feel like it would be cheating to count any of this as gift. also, i'm wondering about the journaling... i requested the 29 gifts journal to be sent to me via email. do i use that journal and/or journal directly here in the discussion forum? any helpful hints would be appreciated.